This comment was left on my blog titled "Welcome To The Search For Healing." This is a true story from a person I love dearly. I know the subject, and he holds part of my heart. I share the same hurt of this mother, and it has been very hard for almost 15 years. This has to be the one, and only description of a mothers "discovered peace." How much more can this grandmother take? Only God knows, but whatever reason terrible things happen I am willing to accept if it be God's will. Unknown commented on ""Welcome To The Search For Healing"" May 3, 2021 When i look amd work with my quadrapalegic son who is a ScI c1-c4 complete.And even being. Completely paralyzed he has AD (autonomic dysreflexia)which consists of extreme spasms, low and high blood pressure ,low or elevated heart rates,possible stroke.And this is the bodys way of responding to pressure or pain that he has no nerve connections to send back n forth the signals and although he cant feel the touch of someones handhe can feel internal pressures and pains. I FIND THIS INTERESTING.MY SON SAYS EVERY TALKS ABOUT THEIR PAIN, AT LEAST THOSE WHO HAVE PAIN CAN FEEL SOMETHING! And wow what a statement if he only knew how swvere his injury was painfully speaking hed realize hes blessed to not be able to feel the pain that would accompany his condition. And he has a point that sometimes to feel pain or anything would be better than not feeling anything at all.So thats physically speaking. My experience with emotional pain due to loss of a life i had for 10 years and suddenly seperated from was very traumatic for me it was sudden and a shock.Being so young it wasnt til later in life i realized that i cried and stayed in self destructkon for 4 years later bcuz the PAIN was the only thing i had left od the whols situation and i didnt wantbto let it go it was my keepsake so to speak..Then i let that go. And one more time i once asked GOD why do i lose everyone and everything ive ever loved? This was given to me , Love wasnt necessarily meant to possess forever or be kept.You see we expierence and learn of love from many things.Like animals, cars, music, food, people,money,sports and so on..Good and bad loss and joy..And so when weve gained knowledge and unselfishness thru these love expierience in life it comes a time when we must move on to the next lesson in love.And after i realized love wasnt something we look for or find it is something we have already and its to be given and shared and not kept..alot of my Pain subsided i wasnt a victim i was a blessed person . Those are some physical, mental and emotional expieriences ive had and one more view of mine just what ive learned recently. That pain and deapair ans geief anything other than Joy is true resistance to our natural flow of vibrancy.Its like a signal from our inner being saying go this way, go around the resistances that keeps us from receiving whats so freely available to us..so its kinda like stubbing our toe or hitting the curb..lol..to grab our attention.Thwse are my views amd past experiences.I never thought much more than that pain was the abscense of the true joy we were meant to live in...thanks for sharing what a good tooic and wanting to hear more from others who have differnt views.very interesting..love Angela (Sharp) Farquer